Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy

Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy (IBCT) is a relatively new approach that has garnered promising scientific support. It is “integrative” in at least two senses. First, it integrates the twin goals of acceptance and change as positive outcomes for couples in therapy. Second, IBCT integrates a variety of treatment strategies from a behavioral theoretical framework.

In essence, IBCT assumes that relationship problems not only result from action and inaction of partners but emotional reactivity to behaviors. IBCT focuses on the emotional context between partners and strives to achieve greater acceptance and intimacy between partners, while making deliberate, targeted changes. This is done through processing partners’ reactions to each other’s communication, versus teaching a “correct” way to communicate. This focus allows responses (natural contingencies) to shape behavior. With IBCT, individuals are more open to adapting to each other and accommodating in ways that reduce conflict. They are also more willing to communicate, negotiate, or problem-solve more effectively since they are no longer adversaries.

  • The standard protocol for IBCT therapy includes two phases –assessment and treatment. Four sessions are dedicated to the assessment and feedback phase, with an additional 20-22 sessions of active treatment. Typically, sessions are conducted every week initially. Toward the end of therapy, sessions are often spaced more widely. Therapy typically lasts from six months to a year.

  • Several studies continue to reflect the efficacy of IBCT, including a major clinical trial on the outcome of couple therapy, sponsored by the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Research indicates:

    • 26 sessions has been shown to help most couples

    • Couples who succeed in therapy usually make concrete changes to accommodate the needs of the other but also show greater emotional acceptance of the other

    • Even couples with serious and chronic distress show significant improvement with IBCT

    • Over two thirds of couples remain together and show significant clinical improvement at the end of therapy as well as two years after the end of therapy

Acceptance is the foundation and a distinguishing aspect of IBCT. When acceptance comes first, it paves the way for change to occur and resistance to dissolve.